Apr 25, 2025

10 things no one tells you about raising a toddler

TOI Lifestyle Desk

What do toddlers do?

Toddlerhood is where chaos meets cuddles, and your patience is tested daily. It’s messy, loud, emotional, and magical. But there are a few surprises no one warns you about. Here’s what really happens when you raise a toddler.

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Silence is suspicious

If your toddler is quiet for too long, brace yourself. Silence is rarely golden. It's usually a sign they’re up to something like painting walls or "washing" your phone.

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Their favourite word is ‘no’

Toddlers discover power through defiance. “No” becomes their anthem, even if they mean yes. It’s not rebellion, it’s their independence blooming.

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You'll never have privacy

Forget about privacy, a toddler will follow you everywhere, even to the bathroom. Personal space is not a concept for them.

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Tantrums have no logic

A broken banana or the wrong color cup can cause full-blown meltdowns. Logic takes a backseat to emotions.

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Sleep regression is real

Just when you think you’ve nailed bedtime, sleep regression strikes. Your toddler will suddenly act like bedtime is optional.

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They copy everything

From words to mannerisms, toddlers mirror what they see. Your sass, your habits, and your moods, they're watching everything.

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Meal times are drama times

Prepare for picky eating. One day they’ll love something, the next they’ll act like it’s poison.

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They're surprisingly smart

Don’t underestimate their brainpower. Toddlers can outsmart you with sneaky tactics and clever questions. They’re tiny geniuses in disguise.

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Hugs fix everything

No matter how chaotic things get, a toddler’s hug or kiss can melt your frustration in seconds.

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You’ll miss this phase

It’s exhausting and intense but fleeting. One day, you’ll miss the giggles, the tantrums, and even the chaos.

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